I seriously want to know what people think about dating and the age separation? When is a man to old for woman before people are whisper "thats her sugar daddie..etc"" and What about a Woman and a man before whisper "she's a cougar or sugar moma" SO HOW MANY YEARS OF SERPPARATIONS SHOULD THERE BE????????? I believe everyone should be happy and do what they want? But for some reason society dosent not see it that way. My best friend is dating a younger man (At least 25yrs) and i ve never seen a couple more in love.. At first i thought it was just a fling but it turn in to more. They both learn so much from each other daily. Feed off each other energy. I thinks its wonderful! So About How Many Years would you go to be happy?
I seriously want to know what people think about dating and the age separation? When is a man to old for woman before people are whisper "thats her sugar daddie..etc"" and What about a Woman and a man before whisper "she's a cougar or sugar moma" SO HOW MANY YEARS OF SERPPARATIONS SHOULD THERE BE????????? I believe everyone should be happy and do what they want? But for some reason society dosent not see it that way. My best friend is dating a younger man (At least 25yrs) and i ve never seen a couple more in love.. At first i thought it was just a fling but it turn in to more. They both learn so much from each other daily. Feed off each other energy. I thinks its wonderful! So About How Many Years would you go to be happy?
I llive with my heart..I think of others feelings first before all the time....I dont judge i am one of the nicest people out here in the world today.. I love opening up topics
Quoting visionarylover
candee,
Do you really think that age is a difference in regards to love?
It is all about your feelings and your essence within yourself.
The spirit of another person has no age boundary.
Your essence and another is only about that alone....essence.
Your heart and another is what makes a great couple.
Never....I mean never....think when it comes to love. Follow your heart.
So many people THINK about love. Wrong move. Follow your heart.
Quoting visionarylover
candee,
Do you really think that age is a difference in regards to love?
It is all about your feelings and your essence within yourself.
The spirit of another person has no age boundary.
Your essence and another is only about that alone....essence.
Your heart and another is what makes a great couple.
Never....I mean never....think when it comes to love. Follow your heart.
So many people THINK about love. Wrong move. Follow your heart.
I do follow my heart...
I llive with my heart..I think of others feelings first before all the time....I dont judge i am one of the nicest people out here in the world today.. I love opening up topics
Well like I said not all are that bad...I had a 55 years old man and he was great.. But the others can't handle me..lol.. kidding... We did have the chemistry... Julie
Sex is like a box of chocolates...lol AS Forest would say Oh that's life.lol
Quoting Wor123
Well like I said not all are that bad...I had a 55 years old man and he was great.. But the others can't handle me..lol.. kidding... We did have the chemistry... Julie
Sex is like a box of chocolates...lol AS Forest would say Oh that's life.lol
Well like I said not all are that bad...I had a 55 years old man and he was great.. But the others can't handle me..lol.. kidding... We did have the chemistry... Julie
Quoting candeee
When comes down to sex... Im really only want a good hour..lol not all night and not five minutes.. IT Seriously comes down to chemistry between two people no matter what age...Believe me no drugs should be needed if your with the right person:)
Quoting candeee
When comes down to sex... Im really only want a good hour..lol not all night and not five minutes.. IT Seriously comes down to chemistry between two people no matter what age...Believe me no drugs should be needed if your with the right person:)
Well like I said not all are that bad...I had a 55 years old man and he was great.. But the others can't handle me..lol.. kidding... We did have the chemistry... Julie
When comes down to sex... Im really only want a good hour..lol not all night and not five minutes.. IT Seriously comes down to chemistry between two people no matter what age...Believe me no drugs should be needed if your with the right person:)
Quoting Wor123
My experience with older men is not bad as far as sex because they want to please me only...but they can't please themselves unless they take viagra...lol...I want to have it all with them...excuse my jokes...this is only for a few certain older men that I know not all.....Good sex is not just about to please the younger person because they get worrn out and soon won't be able to keep up.... But my experience wi th younger guys?..oh boy...but all my friends are older men and they are my mentors and great people..you don't get that from younger men...my ex is exceptional.. Julie
Quoting Wor123
My experience with older men is not bad as far as sex because they want to please me only...but they can't please themselves unless they take viagra...lol...I want to have it all with them...excuse my jokes...this is only for a few certain older men that I know not all.....Good sex is not just about to please the younger person because they get worrn out and soon won't be able to keep up.... But my experience wi th younger guys?..oh boy...but all my friends are older men and they are my mentors and great people..you don't get that from younger men...my ex is exceptional.. Julie
When comes down to sex... Im really only want a good hour..lol not all night and not five minutes.. IT Seriously comes down to chemistry between two people no matter what age...Believe me no drugs should be needed if your with the right person:)
My experience with older men is not bad as far as sex because they want to please me only...but they can't please themselves unless they take viagra...lol...I want to have it all with them...excuse my jokes...this is only for a few certain older men that I know not all.....Good sex is not just about to please the younger person because they get worrn out and soon won't be able to keep up.... But my experience wi th younger guys?..oh boy...but all my friends are older men and they are my mentors and great people..you don't get that from younger men...my ex is exceptional.. Julie
Quoting candeee
My experience Older men are better at pleasing me.... Most men around my own age want to please themseves first...them take the time to please me. ITs all about timming..lol
Quoting candeee
My experience Older men are better at pleasing me.... Most men around my own age want to please themseves first...them take the time to please me. ITs all about timming..lol
My experience with older men is not bad as far as sex because they want to please me only...but they can't please themselves unless they take viagra...lol...I want to have it all with them...excuse my jokes...this is only for a few certain older men that I know not all.....Good sex is not just about to please the younger person because they get worrn out and soon won't be able to keep up.... But my experience wi th younger guys?..oh boy...but all my friends are older men and they are my mentors and great people..you don't get that from younger men...my ex is exceptional.. Julie
Sometimes girls can be catty i raised none of my own now 13 16 19 ...i know excecty what your talking about with step daughters and i raised them for 11yrs. I would stil choose a older man...I belive
Quoting zzzoraya
..Hi candeee...I read that maturity on men are less than on women... so..I think, love dont have age..BUT...if I date with a man younger than me I want he acts as a mature man...but I am not sure if it would work cause younger men always think different... and in the other hand, I was datting with an older man...20 years older and was "almost" perfect the relation ship...cause he teach me a lot about the life... and ..the trouble was...cause he has 2 daughters...almost with the same age of me....they never accept, their father datting with a young woman.....so....the end....
Quoting zzzoraya
..Hi candeee...I read that maturity on men are less than on women... so..I think, love dont have age..BUT...if I date with a man younger than me I want he acts as a mature man...but I am not sure if it would work cause younger men always think different... and in the other hand, I was datting with an older man...20 years older and was "almost" perfect the relation ship...cause he teach me a lot about the life... and ..the trouble was...cause he has 2 daughters...almost with the same age of me....they never accept, their father datting with a young woman.....so....the end....
Sometimes girls can be catty i raised none of my own now 13 16 19 ...i know excecty what your talking about with step daughters and i raised them for 11yrs. I would stil choose a older man...I belive
I think so...Those older men are either self centered insecure...insecure controlling, no sex, over protective , and bad exexperience.they all look for sex but can't even handle sex...so far my experience with older than men has been not too good...so I made friends with some of them...they are good as far talking and dining out..
I guess I have been looking in the wrong places for the wrong kind of men..Actually al those olde r men are wealthy, well educated and way too self centered..that could be the reason too..
Well at least they all spoil me and are good friends now:) like I said I could be wrong... I am sure there are men that are best..
Quoting Wor123
I think so...Those older men are either self centered insecure...insecure controlling, no sex, over protective , and bad exexperience.they all look for sex but can't even handle sex...so far my experience with older than men has been not too good...so I made friends with some of them...they are good as far talking and dining out..
I guess I have been looking in the wrong places for the wrong kind of men..Actually al those olde r men are wealthy, well educated and way too self centered..that could be the reason too..
Well at least they all spoil me and are good friends now:) like I said I could be wrong... I am sure there are men that are best..
WE all deserve attention no matter how late ....Ill respone even if its no or no thank you
Quoting Arizona53
Well CD, I think your comments deserve some attention....its like I said though, sometimes they come in so late that we don't know they are there..... I think I've seen that green shirt of Ray's on the floor on another blog....LOL!
Quoting Arizona53
Well CD, I think your comments deserve some attention....its like I said though, sometimes they come in so late that we don't know they are there..... I think I've seen that green shirt of Ray's on the floor on another blog....LOL!
WE all deserve attention no matter how late ....Ill respone even if its no or no thank you
My experience Older men are better at pleasing me.... Most men around my own age want to please themseves first...them take the time to please me. ITs all about timming..lol
Quoting Wor123
All my exes were very close to my age and I was very comfortable with them talking, laughing, ,and had a lot of fun and the best sex...... Recently I decided to date men over 50 too, but they are very difficult to deal with..older men are not fun and friendly..I think because they are serious, over protective and insecure..And sex is not always good with them .. But I could be wrong...Not all can be that bad..I am pretty sure there are men over 50 that are best.....so far my experience with men 10 years older than me has been bad...they are not fun and they can't handle women younger than them... I would prefer dating a man 3-6 years older than me..But things can change...you never know... Julie
Quoting Wor123
All my exes were very close to my age and I was very comfortable with them talking, laughing, ,and had a lot of fun and the best sex...... Recently I decided to date men over 50 too, but they are very difficult to deal with..older men are not fun and friendly..I think because they are serious, over protective and insecure..And sex is not always good with them .. But I could be wrong...Not all can be that bad..I am pretty sure there are men over 50 that are best.....so far my experience with men 10 years older than me has been bad...they are not fun and they can't handle women younger than them... I would prefer dating a man 3-6 years older than me..But things can change...you never know... Julie
My experience Older men are better at pleasing me.... Most men around my own age want to please themseves first...them take the time to please me. ITs all about timming..lol
Thank you for Sharing and you deserve to be happy with whom ever you find at whatever age! Maybe you"ll find a hot young stallion for now use him only foe S*X and maybe it will turn into more??? Your beautiful and deserve the best!
ON Another note being from MI I thought NGL would be more comfortable in jeans and a sweatshirt...It gets chilly here
Quoting Curious2078
Hi, Candee--
Please indulge a one second hijack: My favorite color--in case no one can tell--is green, so I have to put in my thumbs up for NGL's green shirt. He loves it, he feels comfortable and happy in it, so I vote to let him keep it. On to my opinion on the age issue: When two people of disparate ages get together, I think it's only human nature for friends and family--and strangers--to wonder what the heck is up. Gold-digger? Cougar? Gigolo? Scam artist? In our culture, wondering about such pairings is, I think, more or less normal. And often, I think, people you're close to will overreact out of concern. Personally, I'd give them the benefit of the doubt and assume that their concern is well-intentioned rather than petty jealousy or some other ugliness--unless their concern is blatantly cruel and obnoxious. Then I'd tell them to just f**k off.
However, it really is nobody's business except for the two people in the relationship--unless there's some serious character flaw in your chosen one that is evident to those who know you well; some serious flaw that has nothing to do with age. He or she is very controlling, for example. If both parties to the relationship are strong enough to have patience with loved ones with genuine concern--and strength enough to sluff off gaping stares and whispers of strangers...they can proceed with their affair as easily and naturally as any two people of more "socially acceptable" age differences/similarities would.
My late boyfriend was 25 years older than I was. I wasn't looking for an older man when I hooked up with him--I wasn't looking for any one! But there he was, a man I'd known for years and had never given any thought to as a romantic partner....but, given all the circumstances of both our lives at the time, it was perfect for both of us. We had a wonderful time together for nearly six years until his health rapidly declined with a legion of ailments including Alzheimer's. And even after that we still had tons of laughs together--and romance!!! I wouldn't trade those years for a million dollars. And I--and he-- were very fortunate in that his family was delighted to accept me into the family. What they may have wondered/said to each other behind our backs, I don't know because they had the good grace and "class" to keep it to themselves. Instead of pestering us with shallow worries, they made a great effort to befriend me, get to know me, and find out for themselves if I was worthy of their loved one--which they decided I was. I am still very close to both his sons and his one daughter-in-law. We consider ourselves family.
As for older woman, younger man....Prior to Charley, my boyfriend was a man 8 years younger than me. The relationship was stormy one, overflowing with ugly issues that probably had nothing to do with age. Still, even now, I tend to focus on the age issue--it seems an easy way to sum up all that was wrong with that coupling. So, I'm not capable of being objective about older women/younger men relationships.
Give me a few years, though--I'm sure my objectivity will return [LOL].
I will say this, though, on older women/younger men. As I look around, I often find myself attracted to men I THINK on first meeting must be about my age--and then I find out they're 15 years or so younger!!!! And they seem to be attracted to me as well. [Must have something to do with the fact that I don't look 65.] So....perhaps....if I can get over my "hangup" about younger men that still lingers because of the rotten relationship I had with a younger man---who knows? I may wind up joining the Cougar Club even though I never had any intention of doing so!!!!
Quoting Curious2078
Hi, Candee--
Please indulge a one second hijack: My favorite color--in case no one can tell--is green, so I have to put in my thumbs up for NGL's green shirt. He loves it, he feels comfortable and happy in it, so I vote to let him keep it. On to my opinion on the age issue: When two people of disparate ages get together, I think it's only human nature for friends and family--and strangers--to wonder what the heck is up. Gold-digger? Cougar? Gigolo? Scam artist? In our culture, wondering about such pairings is, I think, more or less normal. And often, I think, people you're close to will overreact out of concern. Personally, I'd give them the benefit of the doubt and assume that their concern is well-intentioned rather than petty jealousy or some other ugliness--unless their concern is blatantly cruel and obnoxious. Then I'd tell them to just f**k off.
However, it really is nobody's business except for the two people in the relationship--unless there's some serious character flaw in your chosen one that is evident to those who know you well; some serious flaw that has nothing to do with age. He or she is very controlling, for example. If both parties to the relationship are strong enough to have patience with loved ones with genuine concern--and strength enough to sluff off gaping stares and whispers of strangers...they can proceed with their affair as easily and naturally as any two people of more "socially acceptable" age differences/similarities would.
My late boyfriend was 25 years older than I was. I wasn't looking for an older man when I hooked up with him--I wasn't looking for any one! But there he was, a man I'd known for years and had never given any thought to as a romantic partner....but, given all the circumstances of both our lives at the time, it was perfect for both of us. We had a wonderful time together for nearly six years until his health rapidly declined with a legion of ailments including Alzheimer's. And even after that we still had tons of laughs together--and romance!!! I wouldn't trade those years for a million dollars. And I--and he-- were very fortunate in that his family was delighted to accept me into the family. What they may have wondered/said to each other behind our backs, I don't know because they had the good grace and "class" to keep it to themselves. Instead of pestering us with shallow worries, they made a great effort to befriend me, get to know me, and find out for themselves if I was worthy of their loved one--which they decided I was. I am still very close to both his sons and his one daughter-in-law. We consider ourselves family.
As for older woman, younger man....Prior to Charley, my boyfriend was a man 8 years younger than me. The relationship was stormy one, overflowing with ugly issues that probably had nothing to do with age. Still, even now, I tend to focus on the age issue--it seems an easy way to sum up all that was wrong with that coupling. So, I'm not capable of being objective about older women/younger men relationships.
Give me a few years, though--I'm sure my objectivity will return [LOL].
I will say this, though, on older women/younger men. As I look around, I often find myself attracted to men I THINK on first meeting must be about my age--and then I find out they're 15 years or so younger!!!! And they seem to be attracted to me as well. [Must have something to do with the fact that I don't look 65.] So....perhaps....if I can get over my "hangup" about younger men that still lingers because of the rotten relationship I had with a younger man---who knows? I may wind up joining the Cougar Club even though I never had any intention of doing so!!!!
Thank you for Sharing and you deserve to be happy with whom ever you find at whatever age! Maybe you"ll find a hot young stallion for now use him only foe S*X and maybe it will turn into more??? Your beautiful and deserve the best!
ON Another note being from MI I thought NGL would be more comfortable in jeans and a sweatshirt...It gets chilly here
THats how I feel im always making fun and adventures out of life... No matter what life hands me i love to go with the flow and have fun and laugh a lot and make others laugh..(or at least give them something to talk about...lol)
Quoting GentlyWoman
Of course they did, lol. This doesnt bother me. A quality guy is a quality guy. I I've always enjoyed young people in general, as many have the kind of energy I have, are fun, not jaded, with new and fresh ideas about music, places to go, stuff like that. I have never chased, hunted, or otherwise "Cougared" a young man. I have been, at times, pursued, by those wanting, I believe the term is, MILF, and the attention was, honestly, flattering for a couple minutes, but never more than that for me. So this obviously isn't my choice for LTR, which I hope would be with a man older, more experienced and grounded, other qualities that I also enjoy and see more often in the 45+. But, for slang or stereotype, there's the Sugar Daddy, Cradle Robber, Grave Robber, Gold-Digger, Puma, Panther. And that doesn't even TOUCH the race slander. You name, it there will always be unflattering terms for dates, unless the man is exactlly 3 years older, 6 inches taller, precisely the same shade, with a body proportionately equivalent to the woman. Those terms are generated and popularized by jealous, bored, lonely people that limit themselves, not me.
Quoting GentlyWoman
Of course they did, lol. This doesnt bother me. A quality guy is a quality guy. I I've always enjoyed young people in general, as many have the kind of energy I have, are fun, not jaded, with new and fresh ideas about music, places to go, stuff like that. I have never chased, hunted, or otherwise "Cougared" a young man. I have been, at times, pursued, by those wanting, I believe the term is, MILF, and the attention was, honestly, flattering for a couple minutes, but never more than that for me. So this obviously isn't my choice for LTR, which I hope would be with a man older, more experienced and grounded, other qualities that I also enjoy and see more often in the 45+. But, for slang or stereotype, there's the Sugar Daddy, Cradle Robber, Grave Robber, Gold-Digger, Puma, Panther. And that doesn't even TOUCH the race slander. You name, it there will always be unflattering terms for dates, unless the man is exactlly 3 years older, 6 inches taller, precisely the same shade, with a body proportionately equivalent to the woman. Those terms are generated and popularized by jealous, bored, lonely people that limit themselves, not me.
THats how I feel im always making fun and adventures out of life... No matter what life hands me i love to go with the flow and have fun and laugh a lot and make others laugh..(or at least give them something to talk about...lol)
